2012 Wedding Trends in Richmond

Use items from your own backyard for your centerpieces, and don't be afraid to mix and match.

With wedding season approaching, it’s time to put together wedding plans and ideas during National Weddings Month this February. From going green to doing things yourself, Richmond weddings in 2012 seem to incorporate a rustic feel to your romantic and unforgettable day. Plan the wedding of your dreams and stay trendy with these tips.

Going Green
Helping save the environment is always a trend, and you can help save the environment one invitation at a time. Use environmentally friendly products, like recycled paper, for your invitations. To add character to décor items for your wedding, consider repurposing old items. For example, collect wine corks for place cards, and spray paint old coffee cans to create rustic-looking vases for your centerpieces.

Vintage
Here’s your something old for the wedding. The old-Hollywood style is coming to weddings this year, and it includes the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s – just avoid the puffy sleeves on your wedding gown. In addition to a vintage-style gown, brides will be hitting up thrift shops and antique stores around Richmond to gather décor items.  Include old wedding photos from both sets of families on the tables during your reception. You can also incorporate an old family tradition, like the song your grandmother danced to at her wedding, into your own wedding.

Do-it-Yourself
With easy access to DIY tips from websites like Pinterest, creating crafts and putting together wedding décor by yourself is the hot wedding trend in 2012. Not only will this bring in personal touches, but it will help your budget. Gather a few of your willing bridesmaids, and create your own bouquets, centerpieces and decorations. Handwrite place cards and print your own invitations.

Dress
White is a classic, and it will always be around. However, many brides in 2012 are reaching for something new – pink wedding gowns. However, if you’re not comfortable wearing a pink dress, you can still add a pop of color to your gown. Add a sash to your dress, or sew a heart-shaped cutout from your favorite fabric onto the back of your dress. If you’re still looking for that something blue, have your seamstress sew your wedding date in blue on the inside and bottom of your wedding gown.

Photography
We saw these popping up in 2011, and they’re still a hit for 2012 weddings: photo booths. Keep with the DIY and create a backdrop for these fun photos, and create props to go with it. This could include funny items like mustaches, bowties, funny sayings and chalkboards for your guests to personalize messages.

Mix and Match
Not all of your centerpieces have to match. Have one item that is the same for each (this could even include using all white flowers or including white roses in each centerpiece). The containers can be of different shapes and sizes, but keep in mind that smaller centerpieces are the trend this year.

Colors
Adding bright and bold colors to your wedding is right on trend this year. This could come in the form of accents to chair covers to flowers. Don’t be afraid to mix a couple of vibrant colors.

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How to Save Money on Your Wedding

Save that money for the honeymoon. Here are easy ways to save on the wedding venue, flowers, invitations and more.

Though television shows would have us believe that everyone spends $10,000 on a wedding dress, the average cost is much less than that. Couples typically spend between $15,000 and $20,000 on their entire weddings in large cities, though you can dramatically cut that amount by prioritizing a few must-have items and then cutting back on the rest. Since most brides go over their budget by about 15 percent, you’ll be glad to have that extra money in your pocket. Besides hiring a friend or photography student to photograph your wedding, here are other ways to trim thousands off your budget while still having a beautiful wedding – and an amazing time.

The Timing

Most weddings happen between May and October, so if you get married in March, April or November, the costs for photographers, caterers, hotels and reception halls are much cheaper. Marry late in the morning on a Sunday and have brunch after or on a Friday night to avoid Saturday evening costs.  Either consider shortening your engagement so you’ll keep the whole event simple, or stay engaged for over a year so you can take advantage of after-holiday or seasonal sales on items you want, such as silver decorations around Christmas or floral décor in the spring.

The Location

Consider a nontraditional venue, such as a city park, zoo, garden or a relative’s great-looking backyard. The gorgeous natural backdrop of public or city-run gardens lessens your need for flowers. Calculate in the cost of tents, tables, toilets and chairs if the venue doesn’t include them.

The Wedding Dress

Purchase your wedding dress second-hand from eBay or Craigslist; it’s likely only been worn once. Or, find a friend who had a destination wedding and ask to borrow her dress – probably only her family saw her in it. You could also rent a designer white dress from Rent the Runway, purchase a white bridesmaid’s dress from a high-quality store such as J. Crew or buy a slightly out-of-season dress from a local bridal store, which will likely give you a discount if you pay for your dress all at once instead of making payments on it.

The Flowers

Choose seasonal and/or local flowers or go faux for your own bouquet – no one will know they’re fake but you. Keep bridesmaids’ bouquets neat and tight, since larger bouquets increase the cost. Alternately, use lots of greenery and few flowers in your arrangements, since greenery is cheaper than flowers and still shows a pop of color. Reuse bridesmaids’ bouquets for additional décor at the reception.

The Invitations

Ask a graphic designer friend at work if he or she would be willing to design your invitation at the cost of a lunch or case of beer, and then print them yourself at a local office supply store or in bulk online. Skip the invitation liner, print the address labels yourself and try to keep all of the information – for the reception too – on one sheet instead of including enclosure cards. Have guests RSVP using a family member’s phone number or email address, or create an online RSVP system from a wedding webpage.

The Food

Opt for chic heavy hors d’oeuvres instead of a sit-down meal, or serve pasta with an inexpensive protein, such as chicken. If you’re having your reception in the park, ask family members to bring one dish each for a potluck reception (you can always assign their dish to control the theme of the meal), and rent silver serving dishes so everything will match. Even better, borrow serving dishes from a married friend.

The Cake

Sheet cakes cost less than tiered wedding cakes, so have a small traditional wedding cake made for pictures and the essential top layer for freezing, but feed wedding guests from a sheet cake in the kitchen. Select a baker who isn’t a wedding cake specialist, as the cake will taste amazing but cost much less than large cakes covered in gum paste flowers and fondant. Or, ask local culinary schools if they have pastry chefs-in-training who would be interested in making a wedding cake for your event. Top your cake with a metal script initial from your new last name, surround each layer in satin ribbon in one of your wedding colors and add fresh flowers or flower petals to each layer, since they cost much less than handcrafted sugar flowers.

The Cocktails

Choose one signature cocktail in a color that matches your wedding or match the cocktail to the season. Either way, The Knot’s Ultimate Signature Cocktail Finder will help you figure out the perfect drink to serve. Pour them into inexpensive high ball glasses, either purchased in bulk from discount glass stores or from another bride secondhand. You can always sell them again later. If you have the budget, supplement your cocktail with one more featuring a different liquor or beer from a keg (hidden behind a table, with a family member serving it) and enough champagne for a toast.

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Best Wedding Boutiques in Chicago

If you're a blushing bride-to-be, these Chicago boutiques can help you say "I Do."

Thanks to classic fairytale stories and their modern-day Disney renditions, most little girls grow up dreaming about their wedding day. Luckily, many great wedding boutiques exist to help make your dream day a reality. Whether you’re looking for the perfect vintage wedding dress, the most elegant wedding cake or the accessories to tie everything together, these Chicago wedding boutiques will have you saying “I Do” in no time.

Something Extravagant: Ultimate Bride
Known in the industry for its posh Oak Street locale and elite clientele, as well as offering gorgeous gowns by high-end designers like Oscar de la Renta, Monique Lhuillier, Vera Wang, Carolina Herrera and Badgley Mischka, Ultimate Bride is the ultimate bridal boutique for Chicago brides looking for the utmost in service, selection and quality. The shop also has veil designers on staff that can create a custom veil to match your dress perfectly. If you can’t afford the designer price, no worries; Ultimate Bride periodically holds sample sales, offering couture gowns at rock-bottom prices.
Where: 106 E. Oak St., Fl. 2, Chicago, IL 60611

Something Alternative: BHLDN
From the moment you walk through the revolving antiqued brass doors and take in the elegant walnut staircase, reclaimed Parisian mirrors and 15-foot ceilings at BHLDN, it’s clear that there’s something different about this bridal boutique. It only makes sense, then, that this alternative bridal boutique (pronounced “beholden”) is backed by trendy lifestyle brand Urban Outfitters. The Chicago location, a 3,600-square-foot, two-level alternative bridal wonderland, is the second BHLDN store nationwide, and the boutique specializes in a mixture of vintage and modern design and less traditional gowns like separates and tea-length looks.
Where: 8 E. Walton St., Chicago, IL 60611

Something Borrowed: I Do Designer Bridal Consignment
If you want your dream wedding but can’t afford to break the bank, I Do Designer Bridal Consignment is here to help. You’ll find anything from one-of-a-kind vintage gowns dating from the 1930s to the 1970s to modern-day couture dresses, most in near-perfect condition and often reduced in price due to nearly unnoticeable minor flaws. The shop also has a seamstress on site to take care of any alterations you may need. So whether you’re looking for something unique or just looking to save a few dollars, make sure to check this place out.
Where: 6742 W. Belmont Ave., Chicago, IL 60634

Something Dazzling: James Ciccotti Bridal Shoes and Accessories
So you’ve found the perfect dress but are still looking for the right accessories or shoes to complete your dream outfit? Look no further than James Ciccotti Bridal Shoes and Accessories. James Ciccotti takes pride in his work and stays true to his aesthetic, and it shows – chances are you won’t find a pair of better designed, better fitting and more comfortable bridal shoes anywhere in Chicago. And his collection of expertly designed jewelry and handbags will provide the perfect complement to any gorgeous gown. He’s even been known to open his boutique early, stay late and come in on holidays for customers.
Where: 2545 N. Clark St., Chicago, IL 60614

Something Sweet: Amy Beck Cake Design
Every bride knows that a great wedding cake is almost as important as the perfect wedding dress. Specializing in crafting beautiful custom and creative cakes, Amy Beck Cake Design is a full service custom cake design business that offers a wide range of delicious cake flavors and fillings, stunning designs and an impressive attention to detail. Making her cakes with the freshest ingredients and the highest quality butter, chocolate, sugar and fruit, Amy Beck’s creations have been featured in CS Brides Magazine, Image Magazine and other media outlets. Whether you prefer a simple, elegant white cake or one bejeweled and layered with flowers and other decorative elements, Amy Beck will leave you wowed. Who said you couldn’t have your cake and eat it, too?
Where: 636 N. Racine Ave., Unit C2, Chicago, IL 60642

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